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My Dearest Husband

You come into my life,
My whole world has changed,
You are my sunshine,
You are my everything.

Hey, my bestie
You are my best buddy,
You are my support system,
You are the world’s best husband.

Hey, my man
You know me better than myself,
Your company makes me complete,
We are made for each other.

Hey, my life partner
We share hope and dreams,
We help each other to achieve our dreams,
We solve problems in life together.

Hey, my sweetheart
You make me smile by my heart,
You have taught me to live life to the fullest,
You heal all my sorrow.

Hey, my love of life
You have answers to all my questions,
You have solutions to all my doubts,
You make me feel so special.

Hey, my dearest husband
How blessed I am!
You are God’s gift to me,
You give me the purpose of my life.

Today is my husband’s birthday, I dedicate this poem to him as a gift.

सपने से अर्थ पाने का सफर

तुम सपना देखो और पूरा करो,
तुम्हे सपने से मकसद मिलेगा,
मकसद पर चलकर
जीवन का नया अर्थ मिलेगा।
हो गया ना, सपने से अर्थ पाने का सफर!

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मैं आप सभी के साथ मेरा पहला कविता संग्रह “जीवन के शब्द” के बारे में साझा करना चाहती हूँ।

मैंने इस कविता संग्रह में ज़िंदगी के विभिन्न पहलुओं को सुंदर शब्दों में पिरोया है। रोज़-बरोज की ज़िंदगी में जो मुश्किलें आती हैं रिश्तों में, सपनों को पाने के लिए, हमारे कार्य क्षेत्र में, उनका समाधान देने की कोशिश की है। जीवन में मानसिक स्वास्थ्य, भावनात्मक स्वास्थ्य और आध्यात्मिक विकास कैसे कर सके, उस पर आपको कविताएं पढ़ने को मिलेगीं। कविता संग्रह में आपको इन सभी पहलुओं की झलक पढ़ने को मिलेगी:
खुद में मगन होकर जीना, रिश्तों में मिलने वाले दर्द को संभालने की कला, जीने की कला, प्रेम भावना से ओत-प्रोत रचनाएं, रिश्तों में कड़वाहट दूर करने के तरीक़े। पढ़कर बताइयेगा जरुर। आपको यह कविता संग्रह कितनी प्रेरणा दे पाया।

बचपन से ही भाषाओं के प्रति ज़्यादा रुचि थी, किताबें पढ़ना बहुत ही पसंद था, पढ़ते-पढ़ते कब यह रुचि लेखनी में परिवर्तित हो गई, पता ही नहीं चला। काॅलेज से थोड़ा-थोडा़ लिखना शुरू किया था, पर पढ़ाई पर ध्यान देने की वज़ह से, इस शौक पर ज़्यादा समय नहीं दे पाई, पर लिखना बंद नहीं किया था। जब भी कुछ दिल से अभिव्यक्त करना हो, शब्दों से बयां कर देती थी। पढ़ाई पूरी करके शादी हुई, तब मेरे पति ने मेरे लेखन के प्रति उत्साह को देखकर मुझे लेखन में ज़्यादा समय देने की प्रेरणा दी। 2017 में ब्लॉग शुरू किया और लेखन की यात्रा एसी शुरू हुई कि कभी रुकी ही नहीं।
मैंने लिखते-लिखते 500 से अधिक कविताएं लिख दी है। मैं हिन्दी, गुजराती, अंग्रेजी और संस्कृत ये सभी भाषाओं में लिखती हूँ। मुझे ब्लॉग से ही लेखन में उड़ान मिली। इन तीन सालों में लेखनी में बहुत कुछ सीखा। मेरी लेखनी मेरी धुन है। लेखनी में खोकर ही मैंने खुद को पाया है।

मैं इश्वर को प्रणाम करना चाहूंगी, जिसकी कृपा से ही सब संभव है, सूर्य देवता और बाला माताजी, जिनको मैं माता-पिता मानती हूं, मेरे गुरु दत्तात्रेय जी को कोटि कोटि वंदन करना चाहूंगी। मैं धन्यवाद करना चाहूंगी, मेरे माता-पिता का, जिनके आशीर्वाद सदा मुझ पर है। मेरे पति का भी दिल से धन्यवाद करना चाहूंगी, जिन्होंने मुझे लिखने के लिए हमेशा प्रोत्साहित किया है। ब्लोग के माध्यम से, मेरे लेखक मित्रों, पाठक वर्ग का भी धन्यवाद करना चाहूंगी, जिनकी वजह से मेरी लेखनी को नयी दिशा मिली। आशीष कुमार (Shanky-salty) का भी बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद करना चाहूंगी, जिनके सहयोग से ही यह कविता संग्रह के पुस्तक का अस्तित्व संभव हो पाया। मैं राधा अग्रवाल जी का भी धन्यवाद करना चाहूंगी। जिन्होंने मेरी किताब का प्रूफ रीडिंग किया है।

मेरी किताब पढ़ने के लिए यहाँ क्लिक करें

It is all about experience

Some experience breaks you down,
while some experience moulds you.

Some experience gives you the freedom to fly in the sky,
While some experience cut your wings.

Some experience gives you sweet memories,
While some experience gives you bitter memories.

We have a collection of experiences,
Life goes on with these experiences.

Utilise all experiences for a noble purpose,
Lead your life with a vision.

Nothing can stop us to lead the life,
With our dreams and aspirations.

Mirror of Mind

(English translation of my Gujarati article Man no Ariso) મનનો અરીસો

We look for our physical appearance in the mirror every day, but do we look towards our mental state? We always pamper our body. Have we ever seen our mind?

Our happiness is locked in the mirror of our mind. If you want to search the key, there is one condition, you have to practice solitude. You have to go within and try to recognise your desires and thoughts. We are used to following a people-pleasing mentality rather than focusing on our thought process. 

The need of our heart is expressiveness though we do not fulfil it. Hence, we create a mess with our emotions.

  • What you like – Express it.
  • Whatever you dislike – Express it with politeness.
  • What you love to wear – Wear it.
  • Whatever you dislike wearing – Please do not choose it.
  • What you love to eat – Have that kind of food.
  • What you hate to eat – Ignore that kind of food.

Our actions are the opposite. We speak to please people, not to please ourselves. We choose that outfit which is not suitable for us then we start to blame on weight, material quality and making misery out of it. We choose restaurants for dinner parties to show off. These actions take us far away from getting the mirror. We accidentally wear a sophistication mask.

To get happiness, we should train our mind. We should understand heart’s wishes and train our mind to fulfil those wishes. Let the mind realise about wishes. Create rhythm between your heart and mind to get a mirror of mind for your happiness. Give an effort for something good.

In the journey towards self-reflectiveness, our biggest obstacle is a people-pleasing perspective. Whatever we like, we don’t do it and whatever we do, we don’t like it. This is the root of our sophistication attitude. We wear a sophisticated mask every time, the mask takes place of the mirror.

In the journey towards self-reflectiveness, our biggest obstacle is a people-pleasing perspective. Whatever we like, we don’t do it and whatever we do, we don’t like it. This is the root of our sophistication attitude. We wear a sophisticated mask every time, the mask takes place of the mirror.

We should take a stand for our happiness on our own. We should take responsibilities to fulfil our wishes, dreams or favourite activities rather than being dependent on our parents, spouse, friends or relatives. At certain age or period, we should be emotionally independent, we can’t afford to be always emotionally dependent on others. Sometimes, dependency leads to despondency.

We always check our outer beauty in the mirror same as we should check our inner beauty in the mirror of our mind. Don’t wear a sophistication mask. Solitude helps to get the mirror of the mind, the mind’s mirror is the source of your happiness.

  • The habit of self-reflection leads you towards a mirror of the mind.
  • The habit of people-pleasing leads you towards a sophistication mask.

Spend some time for yourself. Start the journey for self-reflectiveness, analysis your behaviour, attitude, perceptions and choices in life. Ask a question to yourself – Am I living that kind of life in the present which I want to live? It will help in other areas of your life as well like profession, managing relationships and family time. If you are happy then you can make others happy. Mental health should be your priority. The more mentally healthy you are, the more healthy your relationships with your near and dear ones. Your mental health depends on getting a mirror of the mind and avoiding a sophistication mask.

  • Don’t wear a sophistication mask.
  • Find out the mirror of the mind. 

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The complexity of mind and life

MIND! The mind is a source of power, whatever we want to do and want to achieve, we need to train our mind, we can achieve it through the proper attitude and willingness towards the goal attainment.

By reading the above paragraph, the mind generates thought, how to do so? The answer is simple, our mind works on the repetitive actions performed by us, the mind just processes the thinking. In short, the process is whatever we see, we observe, we feel, we live, and whatever we do our mind absorbs it and starts the process of thinking, repetitive thinking of certain manner, it becomes our philosophy or mentality, that leads to continuously perform those things and convert it in a habit and eventually it becomes our lifestyle.

We know the habit of mind like stereotype thoughts. That’s why we should think about what we want in our life. If we are not satisfied with our life then give a red signal to our mind that to act differently, think differently.

We should develop a habit to monitor our thought process from time to time. As our mentality or thoughts are generated with our surroundings which includes our parents, friends, peers etc. We develop this through observation, but the most important question: Am I happy or not by my thoughts? If the answer is “Yes” then we certainly living the good life but what if the answer is “No”, then certainly we are not on the right track it’s like we are following everyone like a sheep, with no aim or goals in the life, because of this we just run to strive for a life with the stereotype thought, now it demands the change in the thought process which certainly leads to a better life.

The five-step process to change the thought process:

Step – 1:

Start with preparing the list of the things you want in your life, what is your goal, what you want to be and what you like to do most. By preparing the list of the things and starts working in that direction, it creates the pattern of the thoughts, so the mind will be free from unnecessary thoughts.

Step – 2:

Following the first step, you will aware of your actions and thoughts. This is the state of self-awareness. Self-awareness of whatever we are doing in our life is relevant or not. Is it productive or not? Is it towards our ambition or not? Is it gives happiness and peace or not etc.

Some people are a victim of negative thoughts, over-ambitious about material life. For example Branded things, cars, money power, high status in society, jobs in big companies. Yes, it is good to think like this and necessary to achieve materialistic things. But only thinking about materialism, is a phobia of negativity, falls into jealousy, dissatisfaction, show off, cunningness, fear are the roots of negativity. Be aware, it is not the right track.

Step – 3:

Find out your interest area. If you already know- start working on it. Those who’ve already started – congratulations mate! There is a choice for you to convert your interest area into your profession, then you would love your work, it is the ultimate reality in life that we must earn money for the welfare of our life, by hook or crook, we must financially stable. So, choose a profession which we love to work. that will give us immense peace and satisfaction we will enjoy our time. Never get tension about workload, never feel frustration about tasks as we choose what we like to do. This leads to an energetic state. Once we start practising in our favourite area, the money will follow us. This is magic indeed!

Step – 4:

Give time to your hobby, this is very important for refreshment, the mind loves the change in a day, it gets boredom if we do just one or two tasks repeatedly, create your routine in such a way that can give you satisfaction and full of life. You will feel cheerful if you follow your hobbies.

Step – 5:

Take care of your health, physical as well as mental health. Practice yoga, meditation. Make it a habit that will give you a vision in life.

Implement the above steps and set your complexity of mind systematically. It is up to you where you stand, where you fit in a specific aspect. Search it and try to implement it. Train your mind in that direction in which you want to make your journey.

By systematic thinking, you never get confused about different walks of your life. First, make yourself clear so that you never confused, even you become a better person by the time, will more enjoy with your family, friends, your loved ones and fulfil your responsibilities with joy.

A rhythmic thought process balances your life by performing multiple aspects like profession, hobby, health, family, friends etc. Have contentment in all walks of your life that will eventually grow your inner beauty.

This is all about the mind, life and yourself. Complex but simple itself by implementing!